Living the Unexpected Life

  I have recently become friends with someone who adopted a baby three years ago.  I have learned a lot about the other end of adoption from her and it got me thinking about what others may think of my story.   For me, being adopted has always been a known.  How could I not know with 5 other white brothers and sister! My 4th bday   I had an amazing childhood and my Dad always told me I was his favorite.  (Something tells me he said this to all 6 of us!)  My parents burped me, fed me, potty trained me, got up with me at night, loved me for who I was, and sacrificed.  In my mind this defines what a "REAL PARENT" is. There have been many times in my life when people have asked me what I know about my real parents.  I have always taken that question with a little surprise because my Mom and Dad are my real parents.  I have learned that the correct terminology is "birth parents" and "parents". Now that truly makes a lot more sense to me! I know ve

Eastmont Swim Team 2014  When my boys were babies I would sometimes dream up scenarios of what it would be like raising them into teens.  Nothing I imagined compares to what is actually happening today!  It is amazing to watch these kids grow up and try hard at everything they do.  I do not remember being like that when I was a kid. I recently watched a video called "THE POWER OF BELIEF" and it struck me that I think that way today. (see video above)  It took me a long time to believe in myself that way so it blows me away that my kids think that way now.  I take some credit for their belief because I have tried extra hard to be a good example of what it looks like to set a goal and accomplish it.   However, I actually think my kids came to earth with this belief and mindset a part of them already.  According to the video their minds are OPEN to possibilities (they try) and combining that with their INTELLIGENCE makes them successful. I also think that our

Where do I see myself in 5 years, 10 years, and 15 years? 5 years: According to Jason's calculations and master plan (which I honestly am going to have a hard time living) we will be debt free in 5 years with no mortgage!   I have been struggling with THE PLAN only because I have been really good so far with my money so why change.  (Thanks Mr. Money Moustache BTW) However, thinking 5 years ahead I see myself doing the Dave Ramsey debt free yell along side my hubby and I am getting a tiny bit excited about that.  I will not be weighed down by my job but choosing to work 100%.  I will be studying how to play the organ with one child on a mission and a sophomore in High School.  I will still be madly in love with my husband and riding and running the loop trail, eating tacos right afterwards because I burned a bunch of calories and need to get them back.  I will also be driving the same car, living in the same house, and finally practicing sewing baby quilts . 10 Years: I wi